Why did you eat that dessert? You are such a pig! You know sugar is bad for you and you ate it anyway. Wow, you really must be stupid! How can you go to that party? You are so fat and gross!   Would you say any of the above to a beloved friend? Most of us would not even say those words to someone we don’t particularly like, much less someone we love. But we do something much worse—we think … [Read more...]